AHAVA
What Happens After I Apply?
Clarity before connection
We are a psychology-informed matchmaking service for those serious about connection. Our structured discovery process moves beyond guesswork to understand how you communicate, attach, and envision a shared future.
We analyze priorities, emotional dynamics, and lifestyle alignment. Our method is structured, psychology-informed, and refined through lived experience. The outcome is clarity, discernment, and matches of profound intention.
Choose the experience
that fits your journey
A network of intentional singles committed to clarity, character, and meaningful interaction.
Members engage in structured social experiences designed to foster natural connection without performance. This is where real-world interaction reveals alignment.
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Work one-on-one with a
dedicated matchmaker who strategically aligns you with someone compatible in values, vision, and emotional intelligence. We believe lasting partnership requires clarity, not guesswork.
Step into curated experiences designed for chemistry, conversation, and connection where intention replaces awkward small talk and swipe culture.From wine tastings to guided outdoor experiences, each event is structured to create interaction that feels natural, engaging, and enjoyable. Connection unfolds through shared experience.
LOVE's
Rosetta Stone
AHAVA Begins
Where Dating Apps Fall Short
We provide the essential time, space, and honest conversation that algorithms cannot, building a true foundation for connection long before any introduction is made.
Our Methodology:
The Rosetta Stone for Modern Love
We translate your values and emotional patterns into a clear compatibility blueprint through our structured Rosetta Stone process. Our process is mutual: we evaluate readiness, and you determine fit. True readiness is the precursor to partnership. Therefore, we don't just find matches; we first ensure you are fully prepared for the relationship you seek.
Our Hybrid Model: The AHAVA Pathways
1. Signature Events
We host intimate gatherings designed for meaningful interaction these are not crowded mixers. Each event is structured for conversation, with an intentionally vetted guest list. All events are reserved for approved members.
2. Private Matchmaking
This is a bespoke journey with a dedicated matchmaker. We identify and facilitate introductions tailored to your vision for partnership, providing hands-on guidance, discretion, and thoughtful pacing. Please note: acceptance into this program is selective, based on mutual readiness and alignment.
Ahavah is for those who seek clarity before chemistry. We exist to make connection intentional, not accidental.
“AHAVA replaces endless swiping with precision and values-based alignment, this isn’t about more options. It’s about better ones.”
D.Flournoy
About the Founder
Ahavah was founded by Desare Flournoy, a relationship strategist and event architect with over two decades of experience designing intentional experiences.
After years of observing how people connect and disconnect in real-world environments, she recognized a pattern:
Most people understand attraction. Few understand alignment.
Ahavah was created to bridge that gap.
Blending psychology-informed assessment with live, experiential interaction, she helps individuals move beyond performance and into purposeful partnership.
This is not mass matchmaking. This is intentional introduction.
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Experience thoughtfully designed events where intentional singles meet naturally and meaningfully. Every gathering is curated to foster real conversation, authentic inter action, and opportunities for lasting connection.
Exclusive Events for Connection & Discovery
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After the Roses
Exclusive Events for Connection & Discovery
Current Event
After the Roses
After the Roses
A Love Language Experience for Singles
Date: March 19
Time: 5:30 – 8:30 PM
Location: Downtown Huntsville
Tickets: $44
Participation
requires an approved
Ahavah member profile.
There is no cost to apply.
This is not a speed mixer.
After the Roses is a structured evening built around the Five Love Languages, designed to create meaningful interaction without forced conversation. Through guided prompts and intentional pairings, you’ll move beyond surface-level exchanges and into conversations that feel natural and engaging.
Guests will enjoy light appetizers, a cocktail and mocktail bar, and thoughtfully designed moments that encourage genuine connection.
Professional promotional photos will be captured throughout the evening. These are candid images of the experience, not a formal photo session. If you’d like a copy of any photos featuring you, simply reach out after the event.
Future Events
Future Events
WINE TASTING
The Art of Choice & Conversation
Savor hand-selected wines while engaging in guided exercises designed to spark awareness, meaningful dialogue, and playful connection. Designed to encourage relaxed, meaningful interaction
HORSEBACK RIDING DATE EXPERIENCE
Ride. Connect. Discover.
Adventure meets connection in a guided outdoor experience designed to explore trust, leadership, and emotional awareness. Structured yet relaxed, this calm and memorable setting creates space for rhythm, confidence, and playful discovery. Designed to explore trust, presence, and natural connection.
Connect Differently.
Ahavah is a private matchmaking membership for individuals who value clarity, discretion, and intentional partnership.
Your journey begins with a structured assessment, followed by a consultation designed to understand your relational patterns, values, and long-term vision.
From there, members may participate in curated engagements and, when aligned, be considered for highly selective private introductions.
Private matchmaking is intentionally limited to ensure depth, discernment, and thoughtful pacing.
Submission of an application does not guarantee acceptance. Our process is mutual we evaluate, readiness, and you determine fit.
If you value clarity before connection, we welcome your application.
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